You Need The Correct Attitude

Is there someone potentially special you met or have known? Want to ask him or her out on a date? Afraid he or she says “No?” You’re not alone.

One common solution for people afraid of asking another person out on a date is the following, “What’s the worst that can happen--he or she says No.” Unfortunately, that’s the wrong attitude because chances are the attitude doesn’t help the person actually go and ask him or her out. Furthermore, if the person asking for the date receives the answer “No,” the attitude is not going to make the person asking for the date feel better after the rejection.

Continuing the prior Blog entry on living life to the fullest each day, the correct attitude is never think about the negative consequences; in other words, the statement, “What’s the worst that can happen--he or she says No” should have never been in the asker’s mind. Rather, the asker should have the attitude of “Go for it all the way” or “It’s a potential moment of the lifetime . . . the guy or gal can be the love of my life.” Having negative thoughts prevents moving forward—prevents the asker from creating courage to ask the person out.

If the person with the correct attitude of living life to the fullest or living life today receives the answer “No”, the correct attitude keeps the calm in the asker because the asker made the attempt, had the courage to ask the person out on a date. The person goes for it all the way; unfortunately, no “Yes” answer. Tomorrow is another day and another potential day to find someone potentially special. The asker lives tomorrow and the next days and weeks keeping an eye for the special someone. Good luck, everyone!

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